Saturday, September 30, 2006
Mary DeMuth on Zippity Blog!

We interrupt my regularly scheduled Gilmore Girls rant to welcome Mary DeMuth to the blog! Mary is a totally fab writer. Her current book, Wishing on Dandelions, a story of seventeen year old Marantha recovering her life after tragedy and abuse. Mary stoppedby to talk about writing, God, and a 17 year old girl who struggles with love, God, and frustrating relationships.

This book deals with difficult subject matter: childhood sexual abuse and its residual affects. How did this book emerge?

My passion is to write about redemption through the avenue of story. I started the first book, Watching the Tree Limbs, in a flurry. In my mind I saw the streets of Burl and a girl who didn’t know where she came from. Because my personal story involves different instances of sexual abuse, I wanted to write a story that showed the reader how God could intersect an abuse-victim’s life and make a difference.

How is the main character someone a teen audience can relate to?

Maranatha is a seventeen-year-old southern girl who is confused, needy, hopeful, afraid, and tentative. Because she’s been sexually abused in the past, and she doesn’t have a strong father figure, she is drawn to boys and also repulsed by them. There are lots of girls in that situation. I was one—wanting to have a boyfriend who would just hold me, and yet the moment one came near I ran a hundred miles away. Maranatha has a lot to learn about life and love and relationships, just like the rest of us.

So, are you Maranatha?

In some ways yes, some no. Like Maranatha, I felt like God had transformed my life in such a radical way (like her name change from Mara—bitter—to Maranatha—Come Lord Jesus). Like Maranatha, I endured sexual abuse, but I was much younger when it happened. Like Maranatha, I wondered if I had been marked, that every sexual predator could “tell” I was a ready victim. I wrestled through relationships in my teens with Maranatha’s twin feelings of revulsion and attraction. But, she is not me in many other ways. She is more independent. She has no parents. She lives in an entirely different culture. She is less ambitious. She has the privilege of many wiser people to mentor her through life.

What made you decide to write a love story?

The book didn’t start out in my mind as a love story, but it evolved into it as I continued writing. Characters have that uncanny way of taking your prose and running in all sorts of directions with it. Charlie just kept being faithful. In a sense, I fell in love with him!

What made you choose East Texas as the setting for both novels?

The South fascinates me. I grew up in the Northwest. When my last child was born, my husband was transferred to East Texas to start a department in a hospital. Because I was a stay-at-home mom and home schooling, I didn’t have much else to do there except to observe small town southern culture. Because I didn’t grow up in that culture, my senses were heightened and I eventually began to really appreciate the differences.

Childhood sexual abuse is not talked about very often, and seldom covered in novels. What made you decide to write about it?

For that very reason. The more victims are quiet, the less healing they will receive. The more we talk about it, bringing heinous acts to the light, the better able we are to know we are not alone. I wrote this book so other abuse victims would feel validated and heard. And to offer hope.

Why do you end your books with hope?

Because hope is essential to Jesus’ Gospel. Even when things are bleak, there is always hope—if not in this life, then in the next. I’m not interested, however, in presenting hope in a superfluous way. I don’t want to tie up every story thread neatly. The truth is, life is tragic and difficult and bewildering, but God intersects that life and brings hope.

What advice do you have for teens who want to be writers?

Write, write, write. The best thing you can do to improve your writing is to write. And read classics as well as modern classics. Saturate your mind with excellent words. Go on a limb and start writing for publication right now. The more you get edited, the better you’ll become. Start a blog, and be sure you spell check it before you publish it. Form a critique group of like-minded friends. Go to existing critique groups in your area. The last critique group I taught in Dallas had two teens in it. They were such a refreshment! Understand that it takes years to hone your voice. Writing is a difficult profession with lots of rejection, so work hard at developing a thick skin.

Have you always wanted to write?

Yes. Since my second grade teacher told my mother that she thought I was a creative writer, I’ve wanted to write. I kept a diary since the sixth grade. Though I was an English major, I didn’t start writing seriously until my first daughter was born. I wrote for ten years in obscurity before my writing career took a turn for the better.

Who are your literary heroes?

I love Harper Lee. I only wish she’d written more. Leif Enger, who wrote Peace Like a River, greatly inspired me to write visually and artistically. I love Sue Monk Kidd’s Secret Life of Bees, how you could almost taste her characters. I’m fascinated and intimidated by J.R.R. Tolkein—how he managed to create an entire world with several languages is way beyond my literary prowess.

What challenges did you face in your journey to publication?

A lot of rejection. I wrote in obscurity for nearly ten years before I was published in a magazine. I spent many years as a happy stay-at-home mommy, all the while writing. But underneath it all, I had a dream to be published. A dream that burned inside me and wouldn’t stop! Things started turning around for me in 2000 when I met a gal who became my mentor and friend. If you at all have a writer in your life, asking him/her to mentor you would be a great step. And from that point on, things improved. I wrote a newspaper column in Dallas and finished a novel. That novel (still unpublished) helped to land me an agent. From that point on, I’ve been writing almost full time.

How has God shaped your writing career?

God has held my hand when I felt like giving up. He’s been with me these past two years when I’ve done the most writing and the most (painful) growing in my relationship with Him. I live in France as a missionary. It sounds cool, but it’s really, really hard. So, the Lord has been with me through all the difficulties. For that, I’m so thankful.

What do you want your reader to take away from Wishing on Dandelions?
That redemption of a broken life takes time. We’re all on a journey of healing. Sometimes it’s slow going, but if we can endure through the dark times, God will bring us to new places of growth. I want the images and characters to stay with a reader for a long time.

Thanks for stopping by, Mary. I’m enjoying the book right now. Marantha is a great character that any teen could relate to. God Bless!

  posted at 10:07 AM  

Tuesday, September 26, 2006
Calling Dish Network!

I am SOOOO ticked off. Tonight was to be a very, very special night. Some soft music. A little candle light. A nice dinner. Just me and my seven o'clock date. The Gilmore Girls.

And it's NOT on! Why you ask? WHY INDEED! WHY would someone do this to me? What kind of cruel, sick joke is this?

Okay, so the WB no longer exits (a moment of silence, if you please.)....
(silence over)
And it is now the CW. WELL the CW is not being carried on my cable provider (I hate them.). I call my evil, demonic cable provider.
"Is this the evil, demonic cable provider?"
"Yes it is. How may we help you?"
"Where is the CW? Where are Lorelai and Rory?"
"Um...the CW is not currently on."
"WHY?! WHY?! WHY?!"
"You'll have to call the CW network, and they'll tell you exactly why."
"But you won't tell me?" I ask.
"Because you're employed by the Dark Prince of Evil?"

It's just not right. If anyone has Dish Network's number, pass it on. If anyone has some Prozac--send that my way, too.
Why couldn't the public access channels ever mysteriously go off? It's a sad, sad day when the most reliable thing on your cable is U of A TV.

  posted at 8:01 PM  

Thursday, September 21, 2006

I'm on AMAZON!!!
Click HERE to check it out!!!!

(Nobody even told me!)

  posted at 7:53 PM  

Saturday, September 16, 2006
Over- Achievers
Check this out. The first official preview for the movie Eragon.

Okay, Christopher Paolini, the guy who wrote Eragon. Hello, 15 when he wrote the book. And now it's a major motion picture.

What was I doing at fifteen? Um, let me think. Failing my drivers test on a regular basis. (I should probably have a special sticker on my drivers license, I failed it so many times. Maybe a required warning sign on my car?) I was also devoting a lot of time to smutty romance novels (Don't believe it, girls. Just don't believe it.) I was making my mother miserable. (Seriously, aside from getting good grades, I was a rotten kid. She should have required monetary compensation from me.) And I was doing a ridiculous impression of a cheerleader at my high school (small pool of girls to pick from, I guess).

But if I could've done anything at 15, what would I have done? Written a novel like Paolini? Nah. Discovered a cure for cancer? Doubt it. My wish probably would've involved a movie deal, Tom Cruise (he was sane then), and of course, me. Alas, Top Gun II was never meant to be.

What would you want to accomplish at 15? (Or wish you could have, for you old timers)

  posted at 2:43 PM  

Sunday, September 10, 2006
The "R" Word

Responsibility has been the theme of church lately.
Ugh. Sometimes I don't want to be responsible. There are definitely things to do that are more fun. Shopping. Watching a movie. Rearranging my sock drawer.

This week everyone's favorite blonde Paris Hilton got charged with D.U.I. She denied it all, but had this to say: "Everything I do is blown out of proportion. It really hurts my feelings." It may hurt her feelings, but I'm betting wrapping herself around a phone pole would hurt more. So not responsible.

Taking the easy way out is definitely easier. Brad Pitt recently blamed his lack of vows to Angelina on the current American definition of marriage, stating whenever people in this country could marry whomever they wished, then he and Angie would tie the knot. Sigh. And here I thought all this time he was just holding out for me. Still, another example of someone not accepting responsibility for his actions and their consequences.

Last week I did something stupid and had to call and apologize. It's hard. It stinks. It makes my palms sweat. But it's the right thing to do. And I like to sleep at night.

God tells us that he's searching throughout the earth to help those who are doing the right thing and totally sold out to the Lord(II Chron. 16:9). You know, being responsible and Godly. Instead of organizing the sock drawer.

I teach at a giant high school.Last week I asked my students what they had done lately in attempt to be a better human being. One responded that she had helped a student who didn't have lunch money. Another gave a teacher a hand. What about you? Let us know what you've done lately that gets you an A+ for being awesomely upright. And if you see Paris or Brad, fill them in.

  posted at 2:36 PM  

Wednesday, September 06, 2006
G'day and Goodbye

Steve Erwin.
Gonna miss that guy. I didn't really get into all the crocodile wrestling he did, but I loved to listen to him talk.

The croc hunter didn't do anything half way, you know? He was crazy-passionate about his interests: family, animals, and the environment. Wouldn't he have been a cool guy to know? How awesome would it be to have a friend that's so pumped up, so positive. And calls you "mate" (like he means it!).

Steve lived it to the fullest. What's something you're full-on passionate about? School? God? Music? Video games? Discovering the true chemical composition of tofu?

My current passion is writing. Okay, and watching The Soup on E! Yup, I've become a wee bit addicted. But both are making an impact. My first YA book In Between will be out this spring. And as for The Soup,, I can name the major players on Flavor of Love.

That last one's hard to top, I know.
What are you really into right now?
(And those of you whose sole mission has been waiting for the appearance of Suri Cruise-- find a new hobby. The search is over.)

  posted at 3:41 PM  

About Me

Jenny B. Jones

Arkansas, US

I am a teacher in one of the largest high schools in the state. I'm also a writer of Young Adult novels and am currently working on a brand new series. Book three in the Katie Parker Production series, The Big Picture, will hit shelves in April 2008. Stay tuned!

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